~Bitchy Affairs

I was cooking in the kitchen when my cell phone starts playing Dancing Queen by ABBA. I finally answered the phone after having 3 missed calls. It was an ex-university friend, Miss Z. It begins with a normal conversation; like how’s things, are u busy, etc. The ONE thing that strikes me though was when Miss Z told me something concerning family affairs.

“Miss Z’s married-with-3-kids-sister-in-law who stays in a flat was caught cheating with another man (who stays at the same flat on a different floor but just 1 floor above hers) while her husband was working on the night shift.”

OMG!!! What is she thinking? According to Miss Z, this is not her first time. Pity her husband. Just imagine, married-with-3-kids-sister-in-law called the husband at work that night and told him that she was arrested in the police station. For whatever reason, instead Miss Z’s the one who had to bail the married-with-3-kids-sister-in-law out.

This is so not forgiven. I mean, not only she humiliate herself, her husband, but her entire family. Doesn’t she have any pride or dignity of herself? I am trying to think, what made her do such thing. Was it ‘SEX’? Having a husband was not good enough for her? Or merely because her husband is not around and she is lonely and she desires ‘IT’, yearning ‘IT’ and so, she just ‘TAKE’ and ‘ACCEPT’ whatever or whoever comes to her?

Has it not occurred to her that her behavior is unsafe? Has she not worried about getting diseases out of it? Didn’t she think about her kids at least? Miss Z had asked her a few question and to our surprise she answered in a tone that as if it was nothing regretful.
Miss Z’s questions and answers with married-with-3-kids-sister-in-law:
Q: Why did you do it?
A: I felt like it.
Q: Did you have any protection?
A: Yes, I do.
Q: What about your partner?
A: Nope.
Q: Who will be looking after your kids after this? (Because, her husband once said that if she were to do this again, she will be divorce. ‘Jatuh Talak’)
A: I will look after them.
Q: Where are you going to stay? You don’t have a place to stay anymore.
A: I will rent a room.
Q: And you will still continue with what you are doing then?
A: Well, this is what I am.
Q: We have to get you cured? You are crazy?
A: I am not sick. This is just ‘ME’.
**Sigh** For once in my life, I suddenly felt a major relief knowing the fact that although I was given the total freedom in my life when I was younger but with the strong fundamental from my parents have lead me to be what I am today and not end up being wild like her. Thank you mom & dad.

Who to be blame for this? Me too have 2 daughters and it really scares me of what kids these days capable of doing. Is it the parent’s fault? Teachers? Surroundings? I still believe it is oneself. She is an adult and she has a brain to work out on the good or bad things and this is her prerogative.