October 01, 2005

Go sisters!!!

As usual, I started my Saturday morning.. by doing all the chores such as laundry, sweep and mop the floor, prepared breakfast, take out the garbage and so forth.. and now, since I have done most of the part.. I am just waiting for my machine to spin and next would be hang the clothes… this is not my favorite task.. I don’t really like to do the hanging clothes part.. but, what to do.. there’s no helper at home.. Haih! When will I be getting a maid…???

Right now, Kakak is crying.. and why is that?? Well, the usual ‘pushing-biting-pulling’ between the two of them.. I really don’t know what to do with them anymore… it is like.. when Dedek is sitting somewhere quiet playing by herself.. then, Kakak will go over and kacau her.. and vice versa…

But, what I can see… Dedek is more aggressive and Kakak is more of the soft kind.. Kakak is the ‘all-is-mine’ and Dedek end up being the one who has to give-in (‘mengalah’) most of the time. I pitied Dedek in that sense, but.. I think the second child is normally independent.. so, I have more faith on her..

Kakak, she’s the really ‘manja’ kind and loves to report on what Dedek did.. which I find it very funny sometimes… Dedek is also ‘manja’ but, it different way…

Although they fight endlessly, but there are times when either of them get scolded by my hubby or myself.. then, the ones who was not been scolded will go and console the one who got scolded… hahaha.. especially Kakak.. whenever Dedek got scolded by us, Kakak will be really angry and will protect Dedek from us.. Kakak will hug her and she will say… “Dah, dah, dah..” hehe.. which means, “Dah jangan nangis”.

Without a doubt, whatever they do to each other; be it bite, hit, pull, push; they still love each other very much for sure… I mean, this is a normal thing right… fights between siblings.. As for me, I don’t really have the experience on the sibling fights maybe because the gap between my elder brother and me is 5 years and then, the gap between me and Ayie, my younger brother is 10 years.. so, I was basically growing up alone and furthermore, I am the only girl…

So, yupp… no fights as for me..  I think!!! Hehe..

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