W.E.I.R.D.

People can be REALLLLLYYYYY DIFFERENT.

People have their own persona, character, behavior and so forth. In spite of this, normally in our daily environment, we tend to bump into similar kind of people. Therefore, I would like to share about someone I know that have a pretty weird nature.

Though, I am not saying anyone is better than anyone else. It is just that, I want to say that we all need to improve somewhere in our lives to make us all better individuals.

Have you ever noticed that when you are in some sort of funk or vulnerable place in life that some of the oddest people gravitate toward you and proceed to bug the crap out of you by repeatedly asking the exact same question over and over again, or asking a foolish question like “Can you teach me how to drink/eat/walk/love?” (I am so sorry, if you happen to read this. I just don’t know how to convey it to you. Hope you understand). I mean, HELLO!! Nobody ever taught me how to do all those stuff. Of course, there is people who guide us to begin with but the rest is more of our own doings, rite? I would say that, it is more of an intuition. Although, you can always ask me, for an example, “Am I walking properly?” or “Do you think the way I eat is funny?” or “Do you think my boyfriend is being sincere?” and of course, the question need to be supported by the showing how you walk or eat or basically a rough idea or descriptions of the guy and so forth. Then, probably I would be able to help you out and we could discuss it together. Even then, still you need to do the decision yourself and not just taking my answers.

They can be some of the most persistent types of people too! They just seem to be people with “weird energy” for some reason.

As for me, I tried hard to understand them and be patient. Nevertheless, I somehow felt really sorry and end up spending the next good deal of time trying to figure how I can get away and do a soul cleanse. Besides, if I were to stay with them, I couldn’t stand it and I might just explode. Hence, I find that avoiding this ‘people’ is much better way as for now. Am I doing the right thing? *sigh*

Man!!! This is bad.

What about telling the truth? Truth definitely hurts. I actually learn this from my EX Mr. B. He once told me, “Bercakap Benar Walaupun Pahit”. Should I enforce it now at this crucial time? Maybe I should. But, I wouldn’t know how to do it. I don’t want to break anybody’s heart. I don’t want to lose anybody’s trust. How shall I put it in a very soft way? Arghh.. this is truly difficult. It has become my problem although it is actually not. It is more of the person’s problem not knowing how to adapt in situations, not having common sense, selfish and so many other weird behaviors.

I really don’t understand it. It is so hard to read the other person’s mind. When the whole group was talking about something, it looks as if the person joins the crowd, which in real fact, it is just the body and not her mind nor her soul. The person is not concentrating at all. It daydreams a lot. *sigh* For goodness sake, wake up-lah.

It can be really annoying sometimes. Not only that, it never fails to let us all down. It is really stubborn, self-centered and clumsy? Never in my life, I met this kind of people. Sometimes, I have this thinking in my head, could it be due to it suffers some kind of sickness, like my kids. I mean, who knows she might be suffering syndromes (There’s a hell lot of syndromes in this world that we live in).

The gang and I, we always discussed about this matter. We think to ourselves, is it US or it is it? We are really sure that it was different. We can never get to talk to it in any kind of way. It is like, the 10 of you are sitting in a room talking about metrosexual men and suddenly out of no where after we have change the topic to something else, it ask questions like "What is metrosexual men?". HELLO!! Suddenly, everybody went into silence because of the REALLLYYYYY slow reaction or different wavelength disrupt the whole conversation. That is certainly a turn-off.

I have tried and the whole gang tried to change it. It seems like it never gets it. Hmmmpphh… it is really slow, I tell you. It is like a major difference there, you can see the whole world is already laughing and yet it only start bursting into laughter a minute or two later, or worst, it will start asking question like, huh! What happened? Gosh!!!! How do I live with this creature? Where does this creature come from?

It always became our topic. We did not want it to be that way. I mean, it is like, there’s no other better thing for us to do. We can’t help it. We tried avoiding complaining about it, but it never failed to come up with something ‘juicy’ for us to discuss about.

I know it is not good talking about other people. Tell you the truth, never in my life talk about somebody such as this. Since this is the only way for me to express what is inside of me. I just want to let go and be free. Not only me, we (the so-called gang), cannot stand it anymore. I think if we were to keep it long in our head, it will explode one day when ‘we’ really… really… cannot TAHAN!!!

That’s it. I rest my case.

*A long, long sigh*

p/s : Help me!! Tell me what’s your suggestion on how do I deal with such people? Jot it down on the comments, thanks. Cheers mate!!!