What is with you people? Chill, man!

Just leave her alone, will ya!

Sometimes it makes me wonder, the person who’s getting married is very happy with the beautiful or happy ever after life she thinks she’s going to get. So, how come the fans or not fans out there goes miserable/furious/etc just because she decided to choose a divorcee with 3 kids instead of a handsome, younger, rich bachelor.

Well, let me tell you this.

I was once young. I was once attracted to different kinds of men. Even though, there are guys with lots of father’s money (hehe!) approached me, but at the end of the day, even how hard I try to like him; I still can’t. To me, this is all about her as in Siti Nurhaliza. She has her own reasons on why she fell for him. And for those of you who said that she is a ‘perampas’. Do you really know the truth? I mean, no one besides her knows the whole truth. Don’t you think that you go on telling people that she is a ‘perampas’ makes you a ‘pemfitnah’? Coz, from what I heard, Datuk K divorced in March, 2005 and Siti only starts befriending him after her Royal Albert Hall show, in which falls in April, 2005. So, why is that she is a ‘perampas’? Not that I am on her side, I am just trying not to judge a person when I don’t really know the real story. If you know what I mean!!

And people kept telling me, Annuar Zain, Fazley approached her, so why in the world she still chooses an older man? Firstly, have you tried to be in her shoes? Coz, if I were her, I don’t think I will choose both of them either. Simply because, I think that Siti is really matured for her age. She started singing at 16. She’s already a millionaire in her early 20’s. She has a business to run. She has flown everywhere in the world. So, that is why I think she just feels comfortable dating an older man coz, she thinks that this old man could probably give her things that she couldn’t afford (wealth wise), experience on almost everything (age wise), she feels protected, secured, she can be controlled among other things, love and care like a father, brother, friend and all.

People might say, there’s a lot of guys, men out there who wants her, but in real fact is there really a somebody out there chasing her? I don’t think so. She is a ‘GEM’. People are afraid. Afraid of rejections or they thought that they will be rejected. So, what choices does she have? None. Zilch. Nada.

Again, that explains why it is finally Datuk K? Don’t you think?

Another thing, no one’s perfect in this world. Even she is our superstar or diva, you must always remember that she is still a normal human being. She is a young lady who wants to be loved and taste the love. So, if she really thinks that she is in LOVE with this man, let her. If the marriage fails in between, don’t say “I’ve told you so”. But, at least she knows that she had made a mistake and she can learn from it. Let her learn and feel the life that she should go through.

If the marriage ended beautifully, indeed it is good for her. We as the viewers, watchers, we should just pray for her. Pray for her so that she could have a happy life with the man she claims to LOVE. Ok?

Just because all of you like her so much that you think that she might ruin her own life. No other creature knows the future other than GOD himself. So, please give her some freedom and space for her to be HAPPY!