Without You

I suddenly became crippled coz hubby is out of town again. Just imagine those people being a weekend husband or weekend wife. Or the hubby/wife has to leave the country or just attend a course within Malaysia but for weeks. I mean, yes true enough that sometimes even me, myself I needed a break from my husband. But, just a really short break coz at night I still want him to be there. Eheh.. if you know what I mean??!!!

This reminds me of a close friend of mine. She was in a relationship with her boyfriend for really long years. 12 years to be exact. And, somehow the boyfriend decided to broke off due to family matters. Again, just imagine how will she cope with her life without him by her side. As for me, my marriage just reach 5 years this year and a day without him made a lot of different even though we spend our nights quarrelling. Hehe.. the thing is, even if you were to fight. You can still see him and you can still work things out. But, once the relationship ends. It is totally, totally different.

To whom it may concern, I know that life has become harder on you. But, like it or not you still have to face the truth. Just look at the bright side, I mean yes, it is so easy for me to say, but the thing is, you need to help yourself too. Just take it this way. IT IS NOT MEANT TO BE. I got this from somewhere. “Percintaan tidak seharusnya berakhir dengan Perkahwinan” and “Kita hanya merancang. Tuhan yang menentukan”. Just glue this to your head, “Ada hikmah di sebalik semua yang berlaku”. Love is not only about caring each other, but also willing to sacrifice for each other’s happiness.

Hopefully, with all these, it will somehow help you soothe the pain. I wish for your happiness in life. And, may you find your Mr. Right. Don’t give up. It is certainly not the end of the world.

Take care.

P/s: Let me know if you need a shoulder to cry on. I’m here for you.